The Anatomy of Divorce: By Heidi Klum and Seal



 

 

How did Heidi and seal Divorce after 7 Years of Marriage?                                          
By Moffat Machingura
 
On May 10, 2005 in sunny Mexico the German fashion model Heidi and African American star, Seal Samuel exchanged vows, entered the marriage career meant to last for ever. We all celebrated, though deep inside we were afraid they would do it the Hollywood way... break up! But in the next 7 years, the couple proved us wrong; they proved opposites attract, celebrity love lasts, and models want to be mothers... (They had 3 Kids together, Heidi took Seal's surname - Samuel, Seal officially adopted Leni an she became Leni Samuel) till 2012 January 22.
But what changed between Heidi and Seal?
Rather, you should ask what never changed. Let's here it from Heidi and Seal themselves;

1. Heidi and Seal started Soul-Searching after the Wedding, not before.


They say,

"While we have enjoyed seven very loving, loyal and happy years of marriage, after much soul-searching we have decided to separate."
For others, this is normally due to infatuation - strong feelings that are regarded as love: *but for these two their case was different, their wedding was due to circumstance rather than infatuation.

  • Heidi was pregnant for Leni, the baby needed a father.
  • Seal was approaching late 40s, he had to start making life making sense.
  • Heidi was 32, out of the 20s and knowing she will never be a girl anymore.

If in their situation what would you have done? Would you have waited a little longer?
Maybe you would, but they didn't! 
As soon as it seemed like it was love, they skipped the soul searching stage and stepping into the wedding aisle, not knowing they were entering a heartbreak cafe.


2. Heidi and Klum think they grew apart, but actually they never met.

They say,
"We have had the deepest respect for one another throughout our relationship and continue to love each other very much, but we have grown apart."

Their differences were two fundamental to neglect.

  • Race: Interacial marriages work but they demand much effort.
  • Background: She is German, he was American. Background matters in love. 




 Full Words:

'While we have enjoyed seven very loving, loyal and happy years of marriage, after much soul-searching we have decided to separate.

'We have had the deepest respect for one another throughout our relationship and continue to love each other very much, but we have grown apart.

'This is an amicable process and protecting the well-being of our children remains our top priority, especially during this time of transition.

'We thank our family, friends, and fans for their kind words of support. And for our children’s sake, we appreciate you respecting our privacy.'





Hey You! Soap Opera you are 3rd

Blame 3 People for the Heart-Break Café (III)

               By Moffat Machingura

1. You lied. O yes you lied. You, Soap Opera and your friend Movie Thriller, you lied to the world.
You said to me “all you need is love.” But that is not true. Even if marriage is for love, two do not live as cheaply as one. More than love, we both will need money.

2. Soap lied. It is only in Soaps and thrillers, that people make love and not get pregnant. In life, even with protection, I have seen them multiply. I have seen them try to abort, and living with the guilt if they get successful. I have seen their lovers fail to trust them from the time that they kill; (PS:  hard to swallow.) “If you have killed an innocent foetus, what makes me trust you cannot kill me,” the man shouts back when the quarrel gets heated. (I am just telling what I have seen happen in life, but never sighted in a soap opera.)

So Soap Opera, I am saying you lied. I accepted your lies by then and thought they were true. But I saw you destroy my life, and many others around me.

Friends, listen to me. You have a chance to make the best of your life today, and you can do it. You may think I am boring, because I am speaking against how you feel, but it is good to listen to someone who has been there and done that, and has got the scars to prove. Fools learn from their mistakes, but wise people learn from other people’s mistakes. Do not let Cinema lure you into risks and sacrifices that you are going to regret. In love take it slow, because a heart-break is the easiest thing to find. A heart-break lives you heartless, with years you find it more and more difficult fall in love because your faller gets broken.

Be wise. Open your eyes, fools close their eyes in love – but love hurts the blind. Sex is not love. It is only in the Soaps and movies that they make love and not get pregnant. Every sacrifice has a reward, don’t sacrifice till it’s time. Love You.

And I love you too, Soapy.